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In my opinion, the hotwife lifestyle is more of a husband watching and wanting his woman to have sex with as many people as she desires. No humiliation, no angst, just the hotness that is an insatiable woman enjoying the physical pleasures of other men. He also probably has sex with her just as much as she’s fucking other guys!
A cuckolding lifestyle is very similar to the hotwifing lifestyle in regards to the woman having as much sex as she wants, but the feelings of angst can be strong, humiliation is usually there on some level, and sometimes there are other fetishes such as chastity or interracial or feminization thrown in the mix. Cuckolds don’t always have the privilege of having sex with their Cuckoldress, either.
Do couples start at one end and progress to the other? Sometimes. I’ve had quite a few folks tell me that they started off on the hotwifing end of this, then it evolved into a cuckolding situation. I don’t really have anyone that has told me they went the reverse direction, but I have spoken to a number of cucks that are still allowed sex with their partner, when and if his Cuckoldress says so.
I read somewhere on a message board, “If you can still call the shots and ‘put the genie back into the bottle’, it’s a hotwife scene. If she rules her sex life, you’re a cuck.” To some extent, that’s true. I think regardless, it’s difficult to cork the genie. Once this door has been opened, it’s hard to forget about. If you’ve been having incredible sexual experiences why give it up? I think that’s part of the reason some hotwife couples end up cuckolding instead.
Enough of MY thoughts, what are yours? What separates a hotwifing couple from a cuckolding couple? Have you, or someone you know, went from one end of this to the other?
I agree there is a distinct difference in the two. Cucking clearly plays into a dominance element with the female half. It also plays into a submissive element with the husband. None of those things are present in hotwifing. Hotwives enjoy being desired by men, and husbands of hotwives enjoy seeing them enjoy themselves. I think if a poll was conducted, you would find there are more people involved in hotwifing than cucking. It's just an opinion based on my exposure. I also think there are more men who would be agreeable to banging someones wife under the hotwife scenario rather than a cuck situation. You have a far greater chance of picking up a male by being straight forward with them by simply telling them that " my husband allows me to fuck other men as long as he can watch. Are you ok with that?". Trying to explain the complexities of a cuck situation will scare off a great deal of prospective partners who are met at random. Can you imagine trying to explain how you need it to go in a cuck situation at a hotel bar? "You can come up to my room and fuck me, my husband will be tied to a chair and you need to humiliate him while we fuck." I doubt that goes over well. For those situations, I assume like minded cucks and bulls find a match on websites that cater to like minded people.
ReplyDeleteIn the end, I think there is a greater difference between the two and nearly no similarities other than the wife gets sex from someone other than her husband.
Good post!
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