Have you ever had the fantasy of watching your wife/girlfriend getting fucked by another guy? Have you told her and how did she react?

To wives/girlfriends, what would you do, if you find out that your man has this strong desire to watch you having sex??

Cuckolding and Hotwifing, what’s the difference?

What do you see as the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing?

In my opinion, the hotwife lifestyle is more of a husband watching and wanting his woman to have sex with as many people as she desires. No humiliation, no angst, just the hotness that is an insatiable woman enjoying the physical pleasures of other men. He also probably has sex with her just as much as she’s fucking other guys!

A cuckolding lifestyle is very similar to the hotwifing lifestyle in regards to the woman having as much sex as she wants, but the feelings of angst can be strong, humiliation is usually there on some level, and sometimes there are other fetishes such as chastity or interracial or feminization thrown in the mix. Cuckolds don’t always have the privilege of having sex with their Cuckoldress, either.

How do you women feel about being a "Hot Wife"?

I am a very open minded guy and I have participated in alternative lifestyles with some of my ex-girlfriends. Particularly swinging and hot wifing. For those not in the know, a hot wife is a woman who is shared by her husband or boyfriend with other men.

Safe sex practices? *new hotwife here*

Hottie Hayden asks....

So, we are pretty new to the hotwife life. I have been in contact with a few potential partners having sexy emails, pics, and text messages. I haven't met any in person yet, and personally wouldn't know what to even say to them. Should hubby and I meet a potential together? Me alone? I guess what we are looking for is examples of other people's experiences.

My idea of a fun night...

Let's not kid ourselves. This thing that we enjoy is awkward. It's exciting... but it's awkward. It's awkward for the husband, the wife, and the guy you invite to participate.

Having been the second guy in the room, I know what it's like from the perspective of the bull. It's probably not suprising that I use the same approach I used when meeting couples as a single guy, as I use for meeting single guys for our extra-curricular fun now that I'm married.

We always...

• meet casually first
• play safe
• respect boundaries

My concerns as a single guy are much different than the concerns I have now.  Being a straight guy, one of my main concerns was that there was no interest in man-on-man activities. Coming in a close second was that
I go against the stereotypical 

Before any type of play I would meet with the couple in a public place over a drink or appetizers. It wasn't usually a long meeting; just an opportunity for us to have a face-to-face and get an idea about one another.... maybe 30 minutes or so.

After some talking I was able to tell whether the wife was genuinely into this or if it was something she was being kind of coerced into by her husband and her interest was minimal.  There was a couple occasions where the husband was wayyyyy more interested in me than the wife. To the point that it made me uncomfortable and being a straight guy, I didn't pursue anything further.

Just like you're hoping that your wife gets the fuck of her life and you get the show of yours... the bull is just as interested in a fun time and good sex. If the wife isn't into it then no one gets the experience they hoped for.

Rules & Boundaries

What rules, if any, do you have for Hotwife play? 

If you've never done it, what rules would you have?

Fulfilling Husband's Fantasy (maybe)

OK. I need some feedback from total strangers if possible. My name is Jennifer. I'm a 34 year old mother of two and I take great care of myself. I have been married to my wonderful husband Brad for 8 years now. We have a great life and a wonderful sex life. For years it has been his fantasy to watch me with another guy.
I have always said "no way in hell"...

My Wife My Hobby

They say a couple that plays together... stays together...

I see a lot of Hotwife caption pictures out there, but it's hard for me to find the ones I can relate to. This one I made myself.

Most of the captions I see relate to "cuckolds" in a way that is demeaning. They are represented as being weak, pathetic, inadequate, and many times bi-sexual. That seems to be the general consensus.

Confession of a Wife Watcher

I'm a husband that enjoys watching my wife fuck other men.

I'm completely straight and not interested in joining in for a MFM threesome. I just like to watch, sometimes loosely guiding the fun, and always recording to be able to replay the experience as often as I want.