How to cuckold Your Husband

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I am 42, married at age 19, one grown child.  Our sex life never was very exciting but I thought it was ok. I never was one for oral sex certainly not on me.  My husband though was a different story.  He always seemed frustrated and sex for him became routine.  Kiss a while, rub a while, make out like you were excited and get on and get through and get off, roll over and go to sleep.

Finally one day it all went down in flames; he was so frustrated.  Then he finally said what has been on his mind for years. “Sex with you has never been much better than sex with a warm watermelon“.  That did it. I was mad, humiliated and dumbfounded. I thought this marriage is over if that is what he thinks of the way I like sex.  I soon realized though that it was a wake up call and long over due.   Now I needed a plan.  It seemed like he had fantasies of having a trashy hot wife that could really turn him on.  I thought to myself I will become a trashy wife (sexy wife).

Wife Watching: A Sensual Addiction

The Statistics of Penis Size

Statistics #1:  Research shows that roughly 15-17% of men have a penis longer than 6”. Here’s some info from another source….

Measured when fully erect, from shaft base (at the pubis) to tip of glans (the distal end of the penis).

1% of men worldwide have a penis measuring longer than 8¾ inches

3% of men worldwide have a penis measuring 7¾ to 8¾ inches

11% of men worldwide have a penis measuring 7 to 7¾ inches

19% of men worldwide have a penis measuring 6¼ to 7 inches

29% of men worldwide have a penis measuring 5½ to 6¼ inches

21% of men worldwide have a penis measuring 4¾ to 5½ inches

9% of men worldwide have a penis measuring 4 to 4¾ inches

4% of men worldwide have a penis measuring 3¼ to 4 inches

2% of men worldwide have a penis measuring 2¼ to 3¼ inches

1% of men worldwide have a penis measuring less than 2¼ inches

The Cuckolding Fetish: When Your Wife’s Cheating Turns You On

Some husbands like to watch their wives cheat. Welcome to ‘cuckolding,’ a taboo fetish that is far more common than you might think.

Imagine hearing your wife whisper in your ear, telling you all the naughty things she did with a coworker in the backseat of your car. Instead of getting jealous, it turns you on. Maybe you enjoy the idea of how desirable your wife is. Or maybe you want to watch while she cheats on you, taunting you, forcing you to get involved in humiliating ways. Welcome to “cuckolding,” a taboo fetish that is far more common than you might think.

Does Size Matter?

In any relationship size in regard to penis length and width as well as vagina width and depth do matter. In the ancient eastern Kama Sutra manuscript man and woman are divided into three classes. Man can be classified as the hare man, the bull man and the horseman according to the size of his cock. The basics are that he is around 4 inches and thin, 6 inches and moderate, or 8 inches and thick. A woman too can also be classified as a doe, a mare or a female elephant depending on the depth of her cunt. This simply means she is tight, average, or very wide and deep.

The Bull

A bull within the cuckold/hotwife phenomena is a stud. He is a man that is ready to satisfy the hotwife. He can be black or white. He typically is in shape and handsome. Most hot wives have a vision to whom they’re attracted to and the bull should fit their image. A fantasy stud is also well groomed and for the most part very well endowed. He should be able to charm the wife and her husband and be comfortable in such a situation as to be asked to be the sexual provider for the married couple. The bull in terms of his sexual prowess should of course be long lasting and able to hold off on his own orgasm until the wife has hers. He should have no trouble getting an erection and holding it all night. As mentioned his cock should be of adequate size as to satisfy the woman at hand. If the woman is tight moderate size is acceptable. If she is large in vaginal opening he must be thick and long to make her happy.

He can’t be camera shy as many husbands like to take pics or film their lovely wives is passionate embrace. The hand picked stud must also be able to find the hotspots of both spouses and know how charm operates when it comes to the excitement and satisfaction of any encounter. As far as personality, he has to be able to get along with both husband and wife. He needs to be classy enough to run with said couple he provides satisfaction for. Above all else he has to abide by the married couples rules. These rules are the foundation to the cuckold and hotwife lifestyle the pair has agreed to live by.

The Perfect Cuckold and Hotwife Relationship

The big question is, what makes such a relationship work? How does a married couple find balance in such a lifestyle? What must each spouse be prepared for or be willing to sacrifice? These questions and more is what this post is all about.

Cuckolding and Hotwifing, what’s the difference?

What do you see as the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing?

In my opinion, the hotwife lifestyle is more of a husband watching and wanting his woman to have sex with as many people as she desires. No humiliation, no angst, just the hotness that is an insatiable woman enjoying the physical pleasures of other men. He also probably has sex with her just as much as she’s fucking other guys!

A cuckolding lifestyle is very similar to the hotwifing lifestyle in regards to the woman having as much sex as she wants, but the feelings of angst can be strong, humiliation is usually there on some level, and sometimes there are other fetishes such as chastity or interracial or feminization thrown in the mix. Cuckolds don’t always have the privilege of having sex with their Cuckoldress, either.

I Fantasize About My Wife Having Sex With Other Men

QUESTION: Is fantasizing about my wife having sex with another man considered abnormal, immoral, or disloyal? I haven't told her this because of fear of hurting her and losing her. 

Some people fantasize about their partner having sex with another person, and some people fantasize about their partner cheating on them.

The "Why" Question

Q.  Why would a wife agree to become a hotwife and sleep with other guys?

A.  Maybe because she's discovered the pleasures that lie beyond what our society tries to impose upon women about what is considered acceptable sexual behavior for them? The reality is that women have a lot of erogenous zones and no one man can possibly pleasure them all simultaneously! Having "other guys" join a husband in pleasuring his wife makes it possible to stimulate a lot more of them simultaneously and increase the amount of pleasure his wife derives from sex.

How to Make Your Wife a Hotwife

Hotwifing is the ultimate fantasy for many men, there's a vital piece of the puzzle missing -- the piece that tells them how to get from here to there.

Hotwifing

Getting her to agree to hotwifing is not a trivial undertaking because most men instinctively know their wives will not react positively to something like, "why don't you sleep with other guys and let me watch?". Which is something of a shame because it's such a common fantasy.

First Timer Questions

Answer:

Why Ask Why?

 

Sleeping with Someone Outside the Relationship

Contrary to popular belief, the urge to have sex with another person doesn’t always arise out of dissatisfaction and mistrust, but instead it arises out of trust and complete understanding of each other’s needs, romantically and sexually.

ORIGINAL SOURCE

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