A cuckold relationship can often throw up a number of challenges,
and this type of lifestyle is not for everyone. The relationship
involves one member of the partnership, usually the male, watching, or
knowing about his partner having sexual relations outside of the
relationship. A cuckold relationship will often be one that is based on
trust, intimacy and loyalty. Although a cuckold relationship can be
difficult, it can sometimes strengthen the bond between the couple. Here
are some tips on how to make the most out of a cuckold relationship.
1. Carry out the practice in the correct manner
Many cuckold relationships involve a married couple who are both
trusting of each other. The male will often get sexually aroused by
watching or knowing about his partner having sexual relations with other
people. There needs to be a level of trust and intimacy to start with
in a cuckold relationship. The practice is never a good idea if the
relationship is already having problems or there are deep-seated trust
issues. There is a risk that the relationship could break down if these
issues are not addressed first. The couple will need to discuss whether
having a cuckold relationship is right for them and they may reach this
decision based on a number of different factors, such as how long they
have been together, the level of trust they have, and the state of their
current sex life.
2. Be loyal
A couple involved in a cuckold relationship will need to remain loyal
to each other and the practice should never be used as an excuse for
one partner to get out of a loveless marriage, or if a relationship that
is breaking down. Each partner will need to convince the other that the
practice is strictly sexual, and that emotions should be left to one
side. The husband may fear his wife will develop an emotional
relationship with the third party, and this will also need to be
addressed before the practice takes place. Cuckoldry should be seen a
normal, healthy sexual fetish and not something that will damage the
lives of anyone who wants to take part in the act. Individuals will need
to have a certain level of self-esteem and confidence and be secure in
their own relationship to differentiate between the sexual act and any
emotional aspect of the practice. Before taking part in cuckoldry, both
partners will need to sit down and have a long and frank discussion
about what they want to get out of the act, whether they have any
concerns, what the practice will entail, and whether there will be any
long-lasting effect on the future of the relationship.
3. Keep it fun
During the act or after the act has taken place, there should be no
feelings of betrayal or guilt. The cuckold couple should see their
relationship as one that is sexually varied and open to experimentation,
rather than one that is sinful or shameful. Perhaps it would be good to
equate the practice to a hobby or interest rather than a way of life.
There will be more components to a cuckold couple than just sex, and
there will be a number of foundations on which the relationship is based
on such as trust, loyalty, and devotion, which will take precedence
over any sexual act.
4. Be safe
Once a couple has decided that they want to partake in cuckoldry,
they will then have to choose a third party. In most cases it is the
women who will be having sexual relations with a different partner, and
she must make sure that she is completely comfortable with her new
partner. The couple will need to choose a third party that they can
trust. This can either be someone that the couple knows or someone they
have met on a swingers website where they will be able to meet
like-minded individuals who enjoy threesomes and foursomes. It is
advisable that all three members of the party discuss what they want to
get out of the sexual act, either in person, or online, and whether
there are any pre-requisites or general dos and don't s. This can help
to ease the mind of everyone involved, allowing them to enjoy the
practice much more. Communication is a very important aspect of the
cuckold relationship, and all issues will need to be addressed before
anything develops.
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ReplyDeleteAfter a couple of years, finally more of our previous love life came up. I told him I had a three of previous relationship and they were all passing fancies. It was actually about 12, I just thought three would make him feel better. Then I asked him. He was shy at first but he told me that he had 5 previous girlfriends and of course his ex-wife.
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I was really amazed and really curious. So I asked more about them and how they accomplished their escapades. He went into every specific detail including the fact that he watched a few times secretly when he caught them at home a couple of times. I even asked him to tell me how he felt about it. I really did not need to ask. It was obvious considering how turned on he got relating it all. We made incredibly hot love that night while I continued to ask more questions.
Is this normal? I've read about cuckolds. Is it possible he doesn’t realize he is a cuckold? Funny thing is that his story really got to me too. Does he want me to be like them and cheat too?
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