The Bull

A bull within the cuckold/hotwife phenomena is a stud. He is a man that is ready to satisfy the hotwife. He can be black or white. He typically is in shape and handsome. Most hot wives have a vision to whom they’re attracted to and the bull should fit their image. A fantasy stud is also well groomed and for the most part very well endowed. He should be able to charm the wife and her husband and be comfortable in such a situation as to be asked to be the sexual provider for the married couple. The bull in terms of his sexual prowess should of course be long lasting and able to hold off on his own orgasm until the wife has hers. He should have no trouble getting an erection and holding it all night. As mentioned his cock should be of adequate size as to satisfy the woman at hand. If the woman is tight moderate size is acceptable. If she is large in vaginal opening he must be thick and long to make her happy.

He can’t be camera shy as many husbands like to take pics or film their lovely wives is passionate embrace. The hand picked stud must also be able to find the hotspots of both spouses and know how charm operates when it comes to the excitement and satisfaction of any encounter. As far as personality, he has to be able to get along with both husband and wife. He needs to be classy enough to run with said couple he provides satisfaction for. Above all else he has to abide by the married couples rules. These rules are the foundation to the cuckold and hotwife lifestyle the pair has agreed to live by.

Jealousy is what ruins most relationships when other people are involved. These guidelines most be very well respected by the stud. There are certain techniques both physical and verbal that a bull should be proficient in. The physical techniques are all related to bringing the wife to orgasm. The most important being foreplay. A true bull is a master of foreplay. He must bring the wife to the brink of complete desire before entering her with his penis. This is key to making her want him, appreciate him, and desire him for future meetings. He must be able to build her craving up with good kissing technique. Magical kisses skyrocket a hotwife to great heights. The art of clit arousal be it with his tongue or fingers is a major player in the foreplay realm too. Women are all different in what technique they like, a bull should seek knowledge prior from the couple, wife or husband in such regard. In fact it is a great idea to have discussions with the husband before any sexual play. The early emails or chats or phone conversations will help enable the bull to gain great insight into the cuckold’s better half’s true secrets. These are her passion secrets! He should find out her hot spots, be it her neck, ears, inner thigh, feet, lips, or anything else that sets her afire. The stud should have full know-how of what the wife likes best. Does she like it soft or rough, hard and deep, or slow and passionate with gentle kisses? Does the wife like anal sex, nipple biting, and spankings and does she desire her husband to join? These are all the masterful things a bull should learn as soon as he knows a meeting for sex is going down.

Other areas to learn prior are things like does she like to be talked dirty to, and just how does she want her husband involved be it only watching joining, or clean up duties. All couples have their things, so a s a bull learn the passion secrets. On the mental side a bull must be able to mind fuck both cuckold and hotwife. This maybe as simple as knowing her passion secrets prior and elaborating on them very subtlety thought the first bar/location meet part of the night. He must play the game that best satisfies the couple. The biggest key is the tease. The bull must build a rapport with the wife that teases her into wanting him. For instance is he learns she likes vampires from all the recent vampirism films, he can tell her this, “ I’d love to by you a drink, but only if I can kiss your neck and taste your essence first.” “ I may nibble some so beware, I might even take a small bite, but rest assured it will be but a small taste.” With prior knowledge of her liking to having a neck hot spot and the vampire film favorites, the bull has opened the night up to great beginnings. The wife should be melting after this first neck kissing. The drink he gets her shall be her liquid courage, the kiss her awakening. Soon a moistening will begin between her legs. This verbal foreplay sets the tone for the night. On the flip side it only takes a few statements to get the husband in the mood. First and foremost if the wife is having a good time the cuckold will be happy. But still make a few comments about his wife and her wanton desires and the night will begin with amazing enthusiasm. For example the bull need only say, “ I must admit you wife is very lovely.” This statement assures the couple and builds her confidence that he is happy with her appearance. However the bull should add a comment for the husband to take in as well, preferably on a more private note. Let assume he knows the cuckold is small in cock size, the bull need only say, “Well tonight was such a wonderful fulfilling meal.” “I think it’s time to fill your wife up even more back in our hotel room.” This will set the husband off and literally be enough for him to say, “Check!” The stud could with prior info that the husband is not long-lasting comment, “ What a nice start to the evening, I think we’re all in for a long-lasting hot rest of the night as well.” The idea is to have personality and get the couple excited for a great evening of ultimate sexual pleasure.

Every situation is different. My wife loves a touchy flirty guy. So I had to make sure the guy knew such in advance. A husband’s job is to make the bull knowledgeable as much as possible prior to meetings where sex is the main objective at evenings close. That way the bull comes in ready to make the party a memorable one. In the case of random pick ups, the above sort of falls by the wayside. The husband should at least give a few good pointers to the bull. The bull in turn should ask a few things too. The key to being a good bull is finding a couple that is looking for a guy like you. If you do your homework and the match looks good, a wonderful experience should await you. In our case as I write in the upcoming FANNY PRESS new novel Our Dark Secret A Modern Cuckold Memoir the bull had to be black, tall, fit, handsome, and very hung. I guess my wife had her vision of what her bull should be and she wanted no less. Lastly one has to wonder what makes bull want to partake in such a setting? First of all, there is the thrill of the variety. The main goal for men is the ability to have beautiful sexy woman available. A bull has this and he truly enjoys such. When a bull knows that sex is the goal, he can lose his pick up line and his confidence can shine. Everyone is such relationships knows what the other desires. This turn gives a stud a great opportunity to indulge in some serious hot pussy. If you have a big appetite for sex as bulls of this defined blog post do, the idea of having another mans wife sexually, free without courting too much is a win win situation.

A bull’s bag of tricks and items should include the following; Throw a box of condoms that are a good fit in a small travel bag. The average condom is usually too small for a bull. So look into large and extra large sizes. Put in some mints. The small tablets can be used to freshen your breath. A great trick is to use a menthol type during oral sex on a hotwife. It adds a warm sensation and cleans your breath for right after you’re finished. A hotwife will find this technique fabulous. It’s a good idea to have an mp3 player or ipod with some sexy songs on such too. They make real small portable speaker units for such as well. A really prepared bull carries alcohol as well. It’s a cool idea to have a few small wine bottles, or a mixed drink creation in a vial. This can be a big hit in the heat of the moment in a hotel room late at night. Grab a sprite or coke from a vending machine mix it with the vial’s contents and you’re off and running with instant liquid courage for the hotwife. To be a real creative bull carries some chocolates too. Nights out swinging can sometimes get crazy. A snack always works especially after great hours of pounding a lovely hotwife. She will not be able to resist a tiny chocolate bar. It’s sure to put a second smile on her face.

Speaking of putting a smile on a hot married wife’s face. Imagine this setting. A wife dressed very sexy, perhaps a pretty white blouse, tailored black skirt, lace thigh high stockings, stylish high heels, silver bracelet on her wrist and pearls on her neck. She walks ahead of her loving husband and joins with the man they are meeting for the evening. He is a bull, a handsome and charming man whom the husband knows is very well built and will give the wife all she could ever dream of in bed later in that evening. The three gather together maybe for a drink or dinner. The wife is blushing yet very excited. Soon the night will develop into a hotel room romp that will send all three into a fantasy sure to be one of the most amazing evenings of all time. Now this is the true essence of the bull, the hotwife and the cuck. It sure beats a night out bowling with the kids. This above setting is what truly defines the idea of this post. A bull is a guy that a couple employs to make one’s wife soar to her sexual fullest. The combination of a wife that is very sexual, put together with a well-built long lasting bull is probably one of the biggest thrills in the lifestyle. Things don’t get any hotter that the above scenario.

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