A. Maybe because she's discovered the pleasures that lie beyond what our society tries to impose upon women about what is considered acceptable sexual behavior for them? The reality is that women have a lot of erogenous zones and no one man can possibly pleasure them all simultaneously! Having "other guys" join a husband in pleasuring his wife makes it possible to stimulate a lot more of them simultaneously and increase the amount of pleasure his wife derives from sex.
As a husband the most satisfying part of sex with my wife is getting her as turned on as possible and increasing the intensity of her orgasm - that's what pleasures and satisfies me the most! We've talked about having "other guys" join me in pleasuring her so SHE can experience the pleasures that lie beyond what I'm capable of providing her by myself but she's having difficulty getting BEYOND what our society has taught her is considered acceptable sexual behavior for her ! Had she NOT been taught ( or I even consider it as being "programmed" ) by our society she would have more likely reacted naturally to at least experimenting with the concept and once she discovered the extra stimulation and intensity of sexual pleasure she wouldn't be reluctant to regurlarly engage in the activity - or "become a hotwife" which is what a LOT of us husbands really WANT in a wife ! As her husband because she is SO passionate sexually nothing would make me any happier than for her to ALLOW herself to enjoy the sexual pleasures that lie beyond the boundaries she's allowed our society to impose upon her !
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