Awkward Moments

I think many of us husbands remember how awkward it was to bring up this fantasy to our wives.

She will, no doubt, be confused and concerned about your request. She'll question the motivation behind it. She'll wonder if you really love her and whether or not you will use it against her afterwards.

All of these concerns need to be addressed before the fun starts. There can't be any awkward moments before, during or afterwards. If there are, you can kiss the idea of her ever doing it again goodbye.

It's very important that she feel comfortable, secure and loved in your relationship... it's just as important that you feel the same way. Otherwise it could become one of those "be careful what you wish for" situations.

WH