Have you ever had the fantasy of watching your wife/girlfriend getting fucked by another guy? Have you told her and how did she react?

To wives/girlfriends, what would you do, if you find out that your man has this strong desire to watch you having sex??

The Bull

A bull within the cuckold/hotwife phenomena is a stud. He is a man that is ready to satisfy the hotwife. He can be black or white. He typically is in shape and handsome. Most hot wives have a vision to whom they’re attracted to and the bull should fit their image. A fantasy stud is also well groomed and for the most part very well endowed. He should be able to charm the wife and her husband and be comfortable in such a situation as to be asked to be the sexual provider for the married couple. The bull in terms of his sexual prowess should of course be long lasting and able to hold off on his own orgasm until the wife has hers. He should have no trouble getting an erection and holding it all night. As mentioned his cock should be of adequate size as to satisfy the woman at hand. If the woman is tight moderate size is acceptable. If she is large in vaginal opening he must be thick and long to make her happy.

He can’t be camera shy as many husbands like to take pics or film their lovely wives is passionate embrace. The hand picked stud must also be able to find the hotspots of both spouses and know how charm operates when it comes to the excitement and satisfaction of any encounter. As far as personality, he has to be able to get along with both husband and wife. He needs to be classy enough to run with said couple he provides satisfaction for. Above all else he has to abide by the married couples rules. These rules are the foundation to the cuckold and hotwife lifestyle the pair has agreed to live by.

The Perfect Cuckold and Hotwife Relationship

The big question is, what makes such a relationship work? How does a married couple find balance in such a lifestyle? What must each spouse be prepared for or be willing to sacrifice? These questions and more is what this post is all about.

Cuckolding and Hotwifing, what’s the difference?

What do you see as the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing?

In my opinion, the hotwife lifestyle is more of a husband watching and wanting his woman to have sex with as many people as she desires. No humiliation, no angst, just the hotness that is an insatiable woman enjoying the physical pleasures of other men. He also probably has sex with her just as much as she’s fucking other guys!

A cuckolding lifestyle is very similar to the hotwifing lifestyle in regards to the woman having as much sex as she wants, but the feelings of angst can be strong, humiliation is usually there on some level, and sometimes there are other fetishes such as chastity or interracial or feminization thrown in the mix. Cuckolds don’t always have the privilege of having sex with their Cuckoldress, either.

I Fantasize About My Wife Having Sex With Other Men

QUESTION: Is fantasizing about my wife having sex with another man considered abnormal, immoral, or disloyal? I haven't told her this because of fear of hurting her and losing her. 

Some people fantasize about their partner having sex with another person, and some people fantasize about their partner cheating on them.

The "Why" Question

Q.  Why would a wife agree to become a hotwife and sleep with other guys?

A.  Maybe because she's discovered the pleasures that lie beyond what our society tries to impose upon women about what is considered acceptable sexual behavior for them? The reality is that women have a lot of erogenous zones and no one man can possibly pleasure them all simultaneously! Having "other guys" join a husband in pleasuring his wife makes it possible to stimulate a lot more of them simultaneously and increase the amount of pleasure his wife derives from sex.

How do you women feel about being a "Hot Wife"?

I am a very open minded guy and I have participated in alternative lifestyles with some of my ex-girlfriends. Particularly swinging and hot wifing. For those not in the know, a hot wife is a woman who is shared by her husband or boyfriend with other men.

Safe sex practices? *new hotwife here*

Hottie Hayden asks....

So, we are pretty new to the hotwife life. I have been in contact with a few potential partners having sexy emails, pics, and text messages. I haven't met any in person yet, and personally wouldn't know what to even say to them. Should hubby and I meet a potential together? Me alone? I guess what we are looking for is examples of other people's experiences.

Hot Topics Forum-esque

We've come up short in trying to find a free forum application to use with blogger so we've decided to create a forum-like platform ourselves simply by using the tag #hottopics. If you have a question or topic that you would like covered in this area just email it to teamwifewatchers@gmail.com. We'll add it under the #hottopics tag and see what kind of feedback we can get from our visitors.

Go ahead and jump right in! Send us some "Hot Topics" and hopefully we can get some discussions started!

Hotwife Sighting

How to Lose Your Inhibitions

Hotel sex offers a great opportunity for unbridled passion and experimentation. If you are feeling inhibited, this can get in the way of a really good time. Maybe you were brought up to think that sex was bad and the human body dirty. Maybe you had a negative experience you can’t shake. Maybe you just feel self-conscious about your own body, how it looks, what it is capable of. Whatever your inhibitions are, whatever the source, they are all in your head. They have been learned and the good news is they can be unlearned. Hotel sex is the perfect retraining ground for your brain.

My idea of a fun night...

Let's not kid ourselves. This thing that we enjoy is awkward. It's exciting... but it's awkward. It's awkward for the husband, the wife, and the guy you invite to participate.

Having been the second guy in the room, I know what it's like from the perspective of the bull. It's probably not suprising that I use the same approach I used when meeting couples as a single guy, as I use for meeting single guys for our extra-curricular fun now that I'm married.

We always...

• meet casually first
• play safe
• respect boundaries

My concerns as a single guy are much different than the concerns I have now.  Being a straight guy, one of my main concerns was that there was no interest in man-on-man activities. Coming in a close second was that
I go against the stereotypical 

Before any type of play I would meet with the couple in a public place over a drink or appetizers. It wasn't usually a long meeting; just an opportunity for us to have a face-to-face and get an idea about one another.... maybe 30 minutes or so.

After some talking I was able to tell whether the wife was genuinely into this or if it was something she was being kind of coerced into by her husband and her interest was minimal.  There was a couple occasions where the husband was wayyyyy more interested in me than the wife. To the point that it made me uncomfortable and being a straight guy, I didn't pursue anything further.

Just like you're hoping that your wife gets the fuck of her life and you get the show of yours... the bull is just as interested in a fun time and good sex. If the wife isn't into it then no one gets the experience they hoped for.

How to Make Your Wife a Hotwife

Hotwifing is the ultimate fantasy for many men, there's a vital piece of the puzzle missing -- the piece that tells them how to get from here to there.

Hotwifing

Getting her to agree to hotwifing is not a trivial undertaking because most men instinctively know their wives will not react positively to something like, "why don't you sleep with other guys and let me watch?". Which is something of a shame because it's such a common fantasy.

Wife Fucked by Stranger in Hotel